INTRODUCTION

Making It So can seem like it's a balmy 72 degrees in the head all the time.

I have observed through my lifetime many individuals who have suppressed their feelings, desperately attempting to hide their fears. These individuals are not enjoying the process of life. Some of these individuals have hidden behind prescribed medications, alcohol, tobacco and other drugs, only to cover the hurt and distrust as a painter would in attempt to cover rust on metal. It may have a pretty finish but eventually it will erode and the rust will reappear. They superficially attempt to heal the hurt through numerous modalities that only treat the effect, but do not discover the cause of their pain.

Several contemporary solutions (psychotherapy, 12 step programs, Betty Ford Clinics, motivational books and seminars, etc.) have made many advances, but still have not assisted at a deep level in resolving the core issue. Their advances have assisted individuals to become aware that they can be in charge of their emotions and perceptions. They stop blaming others and realize they are responsible for their actions. This awareness has inspired many individuals to acquire the knowledge that they have the freedom to choose to think and react differently.

Once a person realizes he/she has a choice, it empowers them to believe that they can manipulate their world. They'll set goals and acquire objects in a proud response that they are in control of their world. This will only perpetuate their cycle of desperation; futilely trying to control their world without feeling a sense of true happiness. They will again seek additional help in an effort to feel better about themselves and whatever they are venturing to accomplish in their life.

Many psychologists will agree that the number one reason people come to see them is that their patient feels a lack of control over their world, or they feel "out of control."

Through experiences, wisdom from maturity or a revelation, many individuals come to realize that what they were really seeking all along was to just feel good about themselves while these uncontrollable situations were occurring in their lives. They want to know that everything is going to be OK. Or, have the ability to keep their sanity when Mother Nature enforces its power, when their financial world crumbles, when a loved one is ill or has died, or when they feel betrayed by someone they trusted. Others will explain the extraordinary events that occur in their life (sudden death of someone, miraculous life-saving event, lottery winnings, etc.) as a miracle or a divine intervention. They will turn to God to explain the Unexplainable. If those individuals would observe over a lifetime the subtle nuances that occur each moment of each day, they might recognize that each action and event is a well-plotted, planned course - as though you were fulfilling a destiny.

An acquaintance once told me a profound statement; "Everyone is seeking three things: one, to be loved; two, to have the ability to love someone or something; and three, to be respected for both." I wish I could remember his name and give him credit. It is a powerful and wonderful thought. This book is my attempt to assist others in their discovery to love themselves or love whatever, hopefully to be loved in return, and be respected for possessing both! Recognizing the fact that each individual is fulfilling a destiny that affects millions of people by their participation will be their greatest love. Restoring your health, mentally and physically, will be a by-product.

Different titles were suggested for this book. The title, "Making It So" was chosen for several reasons. One was William Shakespeare's quote, "There is nothing either good or bad except that thinking makes it so." Another was from the Star Trek/Next Generation series. In the series, the Captain of the Starship Enterprise, in an attempt to resolve a situation, would inform his staff of what steps were needed to be taken. He would then turn to his colleague with precise information and astute confidence and say, "Make It So, Number One." The person who received and trusted the instructions would then move with such grace and fearlessness that no one could impede their progress.

I offer this book with information that you have probably already heard. I am asking you to make it your reality. For students, teachers, writers, speakers, politicians, business men or women and/or other professional people, this could be the newest tool to make your life easier, more enjoyable, and lead you to a sensation of "enthusiastic contentment."

Imagine that everything you think, do, and say is in perfect order. Because of your participation, your thoughts and actions will create a rippling effect that will affect millions of people positively.

If you knew this to be true, wouldn't you walk with your head held high, with confidence and fortitude, knowing how important you are?

"Man is a god clothed in rags. He is a master of the universe going about begging for a crust of bread. He is a king prostrated before his own servants, a prisoner walled in by his own ignorance. He could be free! He has walked out of his self-constructed prison, for none holds him but himself."

-Paul Twitcbell

FULFILL YOUR DESTINY!

"This book is an Evolution from your Thoughts to Trusting your Feelings/Intuition,
to Being your Authentic Self"

Everyone has a natural rhythm in their life. Everyone has highs and lows. Acknowledging this factor and enjoying the contrasts of your life will reduce your anxiety. When someone states that they feel depressed, I am actually excited for them. I know where they are heading. The pendulum has to swing in the opposite direction. I love this quote by Jalaluddin Rumi: "I saw grief drinking a cup of sorrow and called out, 'It taste sweet, does it not?' 'You've caught me,' grief answered, 'and you've ruined my business, how can I sell sorrow when you know it's a blessing?'" You are here on earth to experience as much as possible of the richness of the human spirit. Enjoy your adventure while you continue to make it so....