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"Through my research for the past 20 years in the academic, clinical and business settings, I have found what we all want at our deep core level (subconsciously) is to be loved, to love and be respected for doing both. When we have all three in our life, we tend to have better health, better relationships and feel more joyous. When one of these variables does not occur we feel invalid or hurt. This hurt leads to fear, anger, frustration and illnesses. Discover how wonderfully Making It So makes you feel worthy again of joy & love!"

Author Robert Van Laarhoven, Ph.D.

 
The Most Comfortable Pillow is a Clear Conscious

This book is Inspiring thousands of readers since its publication in 1998

The information provided in this book has expanded from the sale of the book to personal/private consultations, to inspiring/transforming many business owners on how to operate and conduct business.

It's all about improving relationships. With yourself, a loved one, at work, in your community and the planet we share. Once you are committed to being honest, it leads to clarity and clarity always leads to happiness. Living by these principles, you'll Enjoy the power of knowing.

We invite you to read the book "MAKING IT SO"

Experience while you grow to understand and appreciate real joy in your life. Understanding and living the principles of "making it so" will have you focusing on your truth-love-joy, expanding it, diminishing your fears where you'll entertain them no more. The ability to synchronize your thoughts with your actions will transform your life. This ability is witnessed with great musicians, great athletics, great communicators, etc. If you want to be treated well, why would you mistreat others; if you want to be loved by others, why would you not infuse love in all creatures/environment on our planet. Consistency of thoughts, leads to continuity of thoughts, which leads to harmony in your mind. I do know one person who does not desire more harmony/peace in their lives. This is about living by the simple principles of life on this planet and it will free you from what "others think of you", thus, you'll having access to the wealth of knowledge, energy and support only a few really comprehend. .

Inspiring you to Confidently fulfill your DESTINY
with wonderment and appreciation!

Making It So is a book that has literally changed thousands of people's lives from fear, anger, frustrations and illnesses. Intellectually we understand a great deal about spirituality but are we actually living and breathing joy in our heart and expressing it in our daily life? There is a great quote that states; "The greatest distance a person will travel will be from their head to their heart." This book is unique in that it does not directly point out issues or problems a person may be going through (presently there is a plethora of intellectual material, therapists, and religious influence that approach healing a person by going from the outside in). I believe to solve any problem one has to get at the cause or the root of the issue. Healing from the inside out. Our subconscious mind (the totality of how we interpret our experiences by how our child within feels, effects how we feel about ourselves on the whole) either allows us to enjoy our lives or it will create blocks that cause us pain (mentally and/or physically).

Imagine if I told you that you have several walls that block your heart (feelings) and I am here to help you alleviate your pain. Most individuals would step back and put up their guard (similar to an alcoholic who does not recognize or is in denial that they have a drinking problem). Many individuals do not recognize certain issues about themselves and surely do not want to hear it from a stranger. So.....how does one offer assistance and yet, prevent the walls or blocking from occurring. This is a new discovery that gently lowers or removes their guard(s) so that they can intuitively hear God/Universe talk to them, loving them, each moment of their lives. Not knowing the issues that put the walls or doors up to protect their heart/feelings in the first place, Making It So increases one's self-esteem, building confidence, trusting again their feelings, then expressing their feelings, becoming better communicators, constructing better relationships, bringing more joy, abundance and contentment into their life. When you have the opportunity to read this powerful book, I ask only that you document when you first read the book to what has transpired since and see if you agree with thousands of others who have found real joy in their everyday life.

I understand that people want peace in the world (Presently there are over 43 wars in the world: more than ever before). If there is going to be peace in this world, it must first start on an individual basis. And if that individual is going to be peaceful, there is no question that it must first start deep inside.

Imagine that you tripped over a chair and the person next to you started to laugh. You might feel embarrassed? Now imagine that when you tripped over the chair and five ripples or five people away someone was dying of cancer and it was the first time they had laughed in over two months. How many more times would you trip over the chair?! If you knew the "misperceived" mistakes that you made in your past and how the "rippling effect" affected others, you would only laugh and appreciate the important part you played in the benefit of helping others and in return others are helping you!

We are so close to ourselves that we sometimes lose objectivity or are unable to see the "rippling effect" of our thoughts and actions. We can also be our worst enemy and we tend to hold onto the misperceptions of past events in life and carrying them with us into the present. These misperceptions or hurts can build up over time and may express themselves in anger, frustration, resentments and can lead to mental illnesses (i.e., depression) and physical illnesses (i.e., common colds, cardiovascular diseases and cancer).

Another example would be to observe one's life as though you were looking at a Monet painting. Up close to his art it appears that Monet required glasses. Taking a few steps back you begin to see the art image more clearly. Step back 10 to 15 more steps and the art becomes more beautiful. Increasing the number of steps even further and viewing the art from across the room, one understands why we appreciate his work and claim him as a great artist. Your life may be viewed in a similar manner, each day does not always give much clarity but over time, upon reflection, you start to witness patterns in you life. Maybe it takes 10 to 15 years to recognize the skills or assets that you have honed or sculpted in and around your life. The greatest understanding and appreciation is generally witnessed when we reflect or comprehend over a lifetime and the experiences each of us has gained and participated in, truly becomes a remarkable artwork or story.

"Making It So" will enable you to explore your life from an entirely different perspective. Reinforcing your goodness, relaxing you and increasing your enjoyment of your human experience along with your travel companions. Byproducts from reading the book include an increase in your self-esteem, health, relationships and peace of mind.

If you are starting to notice more coincidences in your life, your spiritual awareness is rising and the frequency of these coincidences are leading you to awareness of certain patterns in your life. You'll then begin to notice cycles and over time you will be able to acknowledge that there is a rhythm to your life. If you are understanding and appreciating your natural rhythms, your consciousness is quite high and you're most likely having a more enjoyable human experience. But Others are suffering! United States ranked 26th in the world in health standards (World Health Organization, 2000) and now is ranked 35th by the WHO, coupled with the fact that 3 out of every 5 Americans are taking mind-altering drugs, many people are not having a very healthy or enjoyable human experience! They may feel overwhelmed and are attempting to suppress their feelings. These feeling may have been suppressed for a very long time. They simply want to anesthetize themselves due to the fact they do not know what to do or how to handle their "feelings." The contents of the written material in MAKING IT SO has assisted thousands of individuals in reducing their anxiety(s) and living a joyful human experience.

 

 

 

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